I kissed a Girl and I Liked It

Blog #1

Hi there. Welcome to Blog 1 of Lesbian X and the City; A format to discuss the in's and out’s of what I have known to become "the lesbian circle". More or less, it is a vehicle to explore everything that comes with being a gay lady from first loves to first heartbreaks, from friendship to friends with benefits, from the backstabbing and trash talking to everything in between. So who am I, you ask? Well, let's see. Ok, put it this way; If Carrie Bradshaw and Blair Waldorf's cell phone had a baby, and that baby was gay, and that gay baby said, "peace out East coast, I‘m headed out to (gasp) LA", you would have me!! Just your typical gal with a flare for gossip looking for love and sex in the big city. Girl love and girl sex that is.

It wasn't always the ladylovin I was after though. In fact I had no idea I was anything close to gay until my early 20's…not a clue. So what was the defining moment, you may wonder? The grand event that rocked my world so hard that I would give up the convenience and hierarchy of being a card caring member of the heterosexual world??

Well, it was more like a gradual progression, I’d say, then one monumentous event that swung my pendulum in the queer direction.... and it all started about 5 years ago.

So, I was living up North trapped in a troubled and, quite frankly, sexless relationship, absolutely miserable and with nothing to loose. I decided to flee my romantic woes along with tragic pale skin in search of sunshine, yoga, vegan food, and, of course, true love.

Now the Kundalini and tempeh were easy enough. The sunshine a given! But LOVE.....now there's where it got tricky.

So picture me now, tan, healthy, SINGLE and in LA!! What was a girl to do? Well let me tell you, I did what any red blooded American woman would do…..I went out and got laid. A lot. As much as possible. You could say I maaaaay have gone a little nuts. Okay, let's call a spade a spade, I was seriously out o' control. Dating a different guy every night, getting it anyway and from anyone I could. I was finally free and this sex starved little lady was up for just about anything. Including, it turns out, for some lesbian action.

Now just a casual little flirting from a close friend is where it really began. A friend who had been known to dip her cute little toes in the lesbian pool from time to time. We’ll call her Daisy. Now Daisy had insisted that I come meet her out to go dancing one night and per usual she was pretty tippsy when I arrived. Okay, that's a lie, she was totally hammered, and to my surprise, hell bent on taking me home. Now Daisy, I should tell you that this point was beyond gorgeous as well as wildly persistent and one thing was for sure, I wasn't about to stand in her way. I'll admit it, in the recent years, I had become a little curious, and if this girl wanted to take me home and have a little fun, I was all for it!!

And there you have it! ……..

What?? You wanted details? Oh no, not on the first blog. You will just have to stay tuned to find out what happened when Miss Daisy drove me home. All I can tell you is “I kissed a girl and I liked it!”

-Lesbian X